Depending on the religion you believed in to be saved, you would rather not be saved.
On the contrary, the family that you built to make you happy makes you unhappy.
You couldn't stop the game you started to have fun with, being stupid by the school you entered to try to be wise, You went bankrupt because you started a business trying to make money, if you confess your love, there are many examples of such unplanned cases.
In other words, people who cannot swim are drowning in measures to grab straws, and they fail to use the means to achieve their goals.
If you rely poorly on tools and tools, you will be afraid of tit for tat.